There are different attitudes about the kind and decent behavior of the stronger sex.
More and more often there are opinions that the gentleman’s behavior simply disappeared.
Perhaps it really disappeared, if we talk about those old principles, but today there are rules of conduct that adorn the real men who deserve all respect from both their own and the opposite sex.
However, that gentlemen are today a minority, is more obvious.
Here are some of the qualities that a decent and honest man should have in today’s world.
A Gentleman always has a vision
You will agree that the person in his mid-twenties, who has absolutely no plan in life, or even fictional, seems completely lost.
Publishing Facebook’s motivational statuses may seem attractive, but if that’s the maximum you can do, it’s better not to do that either.
A real passionate man always strives for something better and strives to achieve this with his ideas and engagements, which at the same time women love to see him do.
A Gentleman is composed
Everybody has their bad and good days, but if literally every trifle and provocation takes you out of control, you look more like an immature boy than a man with decent manners and a firm attitude that can be hard to refute.
How can you expect a girl to seek protection from you when it is needed, if you “shoot” too quickly and too often?
A Gentleman is modest and realistic
When a gentleman does well at the workplace, or at the university, he does not fly too high. And when things do not go very well, he does not “lose” his head. But accepts such circumstances as fully prepared as possible.
He’s hardworking, so when unclean thoughts come to him, he doesn’t blame the whole world for his own problems.
And when a more prominent period occurs, he doesn’t act “important”, he completely settles down.
A Gentleman expresses himself impeccably
This does not mean that every sentence or word must be grammatically correct, although that is, of course, very important. But more relevant is the part that he treats others honestly.
If you have achieved some success, and by the way, you have acquired some financial benefits, it’s really unloving to make fun of the poor or do any verbal actions that are dishonest to others.
A Gentleman lives with high goals
All successful people have a common trait – they are focused on creating values for all people, not just for achieving a certain material profit.
Sometimes you just have to fight for higher goals than yourself. And this is what is required of the gentleman in today’s world.
Of course, not everyone can find a cure for cancer. But to give little attention to disadvantaged people, of course you can.
Leave the children’s games behind you, and do your best to tackle something far more important.